There is an old saying that goes: “Near the ink, it is black, near the lamp, it is bright”. In other words, the living environment and people around will affect the moral character and development trends of people.
Therefore, we need to know how to approach good things, associate with good friends to learn more good things, right to make life more beautiful step by step. Here are 4 types of people who are advised to quickly “make friends” to make the next good luck come!
1. People of good moral character
In the story “The Spring and Autumn Period of the Luc family” there is a sentence like this: “Only those who do not take advantage of the world can gain the trust of the world”.
People who do not harm others around them for their own personal gain are truly worthy of respect. This spirit comes from the noble quality hidden within each person.
There is an expression called “high moral dignity” to indicate that people with higher moral qualities will be respected and respected by everyone. At that time, they will automatically become the standard for everyone to follow.
When dealing with a person, we often look at their appearance, profession and finally, character. The person who firmly grasps the morality of being a human being will be respected wherever he is.
2. A person with a warm heart who cares about others
The ancients once said: “A sage considers the world, a person is more precious than life”.
This is a view of the “sage” way of life and life. As you yourself treat others, the other person will treat you the same way. Therefore, we need to know how to balance relationships in life.
A real person worth making friends with is someone who, in the event of a confrontation, you get in trouble, they will give you a way out. The person that when you make a mistake, they don’t step on it to succeed. After all, when you are with a person who knows how to treat others, who cares about others, your life will be smooth and you will have a lot of luck.
Surely those who follow the Three Kingdoms performance will not be able to forget the scene in the historic Battle of Xich Bich with Cao Cao’s heavy defeat. On the way to escape, Cao Cao encountered Quan Vu’s arrest, but he did not harm Cao Cao, but instead released his opponent.
Originally, Quan Vu resisted the army to let Cao Cao escape because in the past when Cao Cao captured Guan Yu in the battle of Xuzhou, Cao Cao not only didn’t kill him but also treated him kindly and wanted Guan Yu to help him. . Guan Yu released him as a return for the previous gratitude that Cao Cao had won for him.
3. Those who are diligent and study hard
Poet Do Phu once wrote: “Wealth must come from hard work and a man must read five carts of books in his life”.
People still love to say “Pressure to create diamonds”. Only after suffering and suffering can one become a capable adult. However, how many are willing to suffer? There are many people who just hope to have things easy and few dare to face difficulties.
Of all the “sufferings”, learning is the most painful, and this “suffering” will follow you for the rest of your life. If you study a lot, your temperament will be different, the easier it will be to achieve great things.
Chinese comedian Hou Bao Lam doesn’t have much time to go to school, but he has found ways to learn all his life.
Illustration. Photo: Internet
Once, in order to buy a comic book called “The Waves of Terror”, he went a long way, even went to a used bookstore but still couldn’t find it. Later, he heard that the library had this book, so he went and took out a pen and paper to write down no matter how cold it was that day.
Through constant learning, Hou Bao Lam became one of the most famous and influential actors of his generation and a mentor for generations to come. It can be said that diligently reading books and persevering in training are the stepping stones to success and wealth.
4. People who are calm, don’t care about material things
Poet Luc Du once said: “Looking at the vicissitudes of the world, there is neither richness nor poverty”. What is luxury? What is poverty? It’s just a personal feeling.
When a person lives in a happy family and does not need to worry about daily food, clothing, other things become superfluous. They think that as long as living conditions can be met at a basic level and living in the love of relatives and friends, that is already considered rich!
On the other hand, those who have material wealth but lack joy and happiness in everyday life, everything is never enough for them. Those who consider wealth and material things as ordinary things are truly rich.
On the road of life, making friends with rich people is not only “wealth and position”, but that person also has to have wisdom, vision and ideals.
According to Aboluowang
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