The family was “dumbfounded” when the baby was born without arms and a miracle in the yard after 3 years
“I’m so sad like this, you guys make fun of me as a dead man!
Come on, my son, life must have this person and that person can’t be avoided. It’s fine if you don’t mess around, just be obedient to everyone and people will like you.”
The man, nearly 70 years old, thoughtfully talked about the first days when his nephew entered grade 1, then turned to see Khai playing alone with a small dog in a corner of the yard.
Born without two hands, the boy forged himself to write with his feet so as not to be called “a dead man”.
Unhappy birthday
The early summer sunlight shines through the foliage, pouring down in front of the eaves of an old house only about 20m2 wide – where the boy Nguyen Dong Khai (SN 2014, 3D class student, Ninh Xa primary school, Thuan district) Thanh, Bac Ninh province) live.
Dong Khai is not as lucky as his other two brothers: He has not had two arms since he was born…
Right from the day he was born, Dong Khai was unlucky not to have two hands.
The day Khai was about to be born, both maternal and paternal families were present at the hospital to wait for that moment, but the happiness disappeared from their faces.
An hour after the birth of the boy, the family received terrible news from the doctor, they reassured and comforted everyone before announcing that he did not have two arms…
“At first, when I was born like this, my mother’s family was sadder than my family. My family was also sad, but I had to hold my heart in telling Khai’s parents that he was born like that and couldn’t be rejected, couldn’t do anything like that. I’ll just take care of it. Later on, I will learn to do it. If I don’t teach it, then I can’t do it, but I tell him that gradually I can do it all.”. Mr. Nguyen Van My (Khai’s grandfather) recounted.
Seeing that he asked to help prepare his bag for the afternoon study at school, Mr. My was busy going inside the house to help him. Wearing a briefcase on his shoulder, he looked at his watch and prepared a bicycle to take the boy to school…
The small concrete road only had the sound of a bicycle rattling in the afternoon sun.
On the day when Khai was brought home from the hospital, many people also mobilized his family to send him to a disabled school, but the whole family loved him and didn’t let him go. It wasn’t until kindergarten year that they let him go to Bac Ninh School for the Disabled. However, when they saw him, the teachers said that if he didn’t know what to do, he wouldn’t accept it. That means he has to be able to bathe himself, get dressed, and be able to eat and drink.
At that time, Khai only knew that he had to eat and drink, but he had not yet taken care of his personal activities. The family had to pity Khai to take him home and take care of him until he entered grade 1.
The day the family took the boy to primary school. The principal and the homeroom teacher were also afraid of my case, afraid that I would not be able to write. At that time, my family asked me to let him study for a week, if not, the family will pick him up. When I went to class, I studied well and could write, so I was accepted by the school and helped me as much as possible.
Khai worked hard to write every word on a blank page, the image made people feel strongly.
In these first days. Teachers and parents of students from other classes also came to see how the child actually wrote. Up to now, many students in the class write not as good as this energetic boy.
The willpower to overcome oneself
Loving the disadvantaged children, Mr. Thinh (Khai’s father) and his wife and family always compensate their children with love, care and concern.
At the age of 3, the family was delighted when the boy used chalk to practice painting, drawing, and writing on the paving bricks in the yard, each brick was a word. Although the new handwriting is silly, a single word written is a tear from Mr. Thinh’s eyes.
From the day when Khai could write with his feet, the whole family was silent because of emotion, no one dared to believe that he could do such a miracle. Not only can he stand on his own two feet, but Khai can also do everything from personal hygiene to folding clothes, writing letters, learning to swim…
“When I was born, every time I looked at Khai crawling and crawling like a worm, my mouth was always smiling, but tears kept flowing. Looking at the child’s form and weak health, my wife and I kept living in fear. … But when he was 2 years old, he spoke very fluently, was hyperactive, knew how to play games with his feet, use his feet to pick up a spoon and eat. The two brothers went to the pool to practice together.”
In the small classroom, boy Khai sat at the front of the class, he sat cross-legged on a homemade table. Her eyes glazed over to the blackboard where the teacher was teaching. Going around the class to check, the teacher came to Khai again and sat down to guide…
Each handwriting follows two small toes like that, he writes beautifully and is extremely smooth, sometimes frowns because his toes are tired, he puts down the pen to let the feeling of numbness go away and then writes hard again .
“From the very beginning, when I saw my child’s case like this, the school also created all conditions for him to integrate with his friends. Like Khai’s condition, he had to write with his feet, the 1st grade teacher also guided him a lot. and the support of classmates so that he can learn.
Our school also built a separate desk for him to sit on and write on. I am also very energetic to absorb lessons very quickly, obediently, and hard-working.” Ms. Tran Thi Thanh Van, Principal of Ninh Xa Primary School, said more about Khai’s learning drive.
The school drum had already been marked, and Mr. My stood among the people who were picking up his children at the school gate, his eyes turned to Khai’s classroom. He told Khai not to rush out with his friends to play or leave, lest he fall, he would be beaten to the ground and difficult to get up.
“Grandpa, here I am!”
Khai walked up to him, patted the boy’s head and carried him to the car. The two grandson and grandson rode on the old car again, the sun was already late in the afternoon…
Grandma brought the tray of rice, Mr. My was still petting his son to take a bath. He said that Khai was afraid to take a bath because he was afraid of slipping and afraid to wear pants. While making bath water, he joked “Now you take a bath to get used to it, later when you get married, it’ll be miserable for you to come over and take a bath.”
Today, my parents came home late from work, only Khai sat down to eat with his grandparents, the other 2 brothers waited for their parents to come back to eat together, Mr. My said that the working hours were different, so it was convenient for everyone to eat first. that hour.
“At first, it was difficult for me to grip the spoon because it was slippery, then I had to buy an iron spoon for me to clamp. The slippery chopsticks did not dare to buy, I had to buy wooden chopsticks for me to gradually clamp the noodles to my mouth to eat. There are days when I like to eat chopsticks, I have to. tear food for your son.”
With quick feet and rice and food in the bowl, compared to the average person, Khai’s average time to finish a bowl of rice is not inferior. Giving the bowl to the grandmother to stir the second bowl, Khai chirped “I eat faster than you.”
“Uncle, please give me your zalo. When you finish writing the newspaper, I will ask for the article I read and show it to everyone.
But now my friends don’t call me Cutie anymore, they play with me a lot.”
Khai finished speaking and then ran out of the gate, playing and waiting for his parents to get ready to come home from work…
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