I love you but I’m afraid if I’m pregnant

I am over 40 years old, have a wife and 12 year old children. She is 30 years old, returned from studying abroad, is the director of a foreign corporation in Vietnam. We met as partners, we shared jobs and phone numbers. After a while, we often text, besides work, we also talk about personal things. When the contract between the two companies was approved and about to be signed, she invited me to her house to have dinner with her friend and my friend. Everyone drank a lot that night, me and you both. When I went down the hall, I don’t remember exactly what she and I called each other, but I went back up to her house and slept again. After that day, my brother and I both collapsed, extremely tired, so we both missed each other and overcome it together.

You blocked all of my communications, canceled the contract and a lot of things happened. After that, it didn’t work, so I silently did everything until the contract was completed and signed. Since then, you and I have had a bigger turning point, we both know that we have deep feelings for each other and give each other words of love. Later, my wife discovered and went to the city to actively meet her. She said she would stop at friends and work, promised never to be with me. Everything calmed down, my wife forgave me.

>> Love your wife and lover equally

After the last Tet holiday, I moved to Ho Chi Minh City to live and work. The meetings between me and you are more frequent, whatever happens, we rush into each other again. Because both are busy, have little time for each other, only meet twice a week. When we officially fell in love, I was jealous when I saw someone near her and so did she. Every time I go back to my hometown to visit my family, when I come back, she clearly shows discomfort and grumpiness. After a day of going there again, we were together again. Recently, my sister and I both wanted to have a baby.

My father discovered our love story. Her family, who are teachers and officials, did not accept this love story and forced her to leave me. Plus that night, my wife found out that you and I were together. The next morning I returned to arrange and settle family matters. After I walked out of the house, she actively texted to break up, advised me to return to my wife and children, she would marry someone arranged by her family. When I returned home four days later, I settled the family matter, and my wife accepted the forgiveness again. I thought things would get better, but no.

>> Adultery but always love his wife

Last night, I texted again and was jealous and angry. You hurled harsh words at me, but I know you don’t want to be away from me, I honestly can’t leave you either. My love story has been like this for nearly a year, I know that if it is discovered again, I will lose my family. As for starting over with you, I honestly don’t have the courage. Even if you love me and just want to be with me, you don’t specify anything. Now I’m like a soulless person, tired, bored with so many things happening at the same time. I got married not out of love, anyway, we lived together for ten years and had children.

I was determined not to see her again, but last night her words and actions made me very worried. I think I have a baby with you, very scared if that happens. Hope everyone can share, please don’t throw stones because my love for each other is sincere.

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