Having failed her first marriage, Hoai Thuong (nicknamed Tyna, 32 years old, from Hue) decided to be a single mother to raise her daughter alone. The day she brought her children back to Hue so that her ex-husband could not find her, she would have had the chance to meet Mr. Armin – a German engineer over 6 years old.
Currently, they are living a happy life in the state of Baden-Württemberg, Germany with 3 children: her stepchild Suri and her previous husband, baby Felix and baby Valentina. She stays at home to take care of her children and makes Youtube sharing her life in Germany.
The small nest of Ms. Thuong and Mr. Armin.
The love story of a single mother and a German engineer
Before meeting Mr. Armin, Ms. Thuong was a single mother. After conflicts with her ex-husband, she decided to divorce and raise her children alone so that the mother and daughter could always be happy and have a comfortable life.
At that time, when her son was over 1 year old, she decided to give up everything in Saigon and hug her son back to her hometown in Hue to live. Here, my cousin has just opened a homestay, she intends to stay for a few days, but seeing that her cousin alone has a lot of work, she asks to stay to clean, help with work, no salary, as long as the child has milk and the mother and child have a place to stay. eat, sleep. And since then, she and her husband Duc had a chance to meet. Speaking of which, Thuong said that the love story of her and her husband is like the destiny that God has arranged.
“In those days, I was busy cleaning the room, when the baby was young, no one cared, I had to hold the baby while cleaning. I’m a friend of my cousin and I’m also traveling, so I stopped by to support. When I first met him, I probably wouldn’t have had any impression other than that he was quiet, so I was cautiously thinking that he was difficult. My husband and I don’t think about each other, but everyone thinks about our daughter.
I love her so much, even though I just met him, he looks difficult to approach, but near him he often laughs and plays games for him. In the afternoon, when he has no work, he invites us to go to the park near his house, just to let him stay at home. i play the game. My baby at that time was learning to talk, every time he saw him, he called daddy, daddy. Later, he said, he had never called his father before, that’s what my baby called him, so he was very happy.” Thuong recalled.
He proposed to her in 2015.
2 weeks in Vietnam, Mr. Armin feeds, sleeps and plays with Thuong’s daughter, so she has a lot of affection for him. However, she still only considered him as a guest until the day he returned to Germany, she texted to visit her mother and daughter. He told her that he felt sorry for the baby, he wanted to help her go to kindergarten and wanted to be the baby’s adoptive father, being able to give her a fuller life, which surprised her very much. She just thought it was a joke, so she joked back at him, “If you raise a child, then take care of your mother!”
And unexpectedly, Mr. Armin agreed. So we get to know each other through screens every day. In September 2015, he asked to visit her mother and daughter again and wanted to bring her mother and daughter over to take care of her more conveniently. So after a week of “proposing”, he flew back to Vietnam and their small wedding ceremony took place with his family.
“The life of my mother and daughter has since turned to a new page, in a new life that is happier, loved and pampered by her husband more, her parents-in-law take care of her like a biological child. After nearly 7 years in Germany, my family welcomed 2 more small members, now life is just filled with laughter every day.” Thuong smiled.
Being pregnant for the 3rd time, I fainted in the toilet, cried all the time because I was alone in the hospital
It is known that after 6 months of moving to Germany, Ms. Thuong was pregnant with her second baby. She was only “a stork body” weighing 40kg, but when she was pregnant, she gained nearly 10kg. Although pregnant with the sweet and happy fruit of both, they still love their eldest daughter so that she doesn’t feel sorry for herself. Brothers and sisters always let the baby talk to the baby while in the womb and always give priority to the baby.
“My husband loves him very much, father and son often meet to go to the cinema, see musicals, and register the child to participate in summer activities because he is afraid that he will be bored at home a lot in the summer.” Thuong said.
It is known that Thuong’s first baby was born in Vietnam with excess amniotic fluid, so she had to have an urgent caesarean section. As for the second baby, the doctor in Germany said she could give birth naturally. However, near the due date, the husband went to work, only the sister was alone at home, not knowing how to manage during labor. Moreover, she has no experience in giving birth naturally, so when she was close to the date of birth, she decided to register for a caesarean section. Her second baby was born weighing 3.2 kg.
Pregnant with the third baby is the most difficult.
In 2020, her small nest continues to welcome the third baby to the family. For her in 3 pregnancies, the 3rd time was the most difficult because her morning sickness was very heavy. One day, she vomited up to a dozen times and mornings all the smells, every smell is so morning that the smell of plants can’t stand it. Because of severe morning sickness, 3-4 months pregnant with the third baby, she lost 5kg from 45kg to 40kg. Even she was so morning that she fainted in the toilet and had to be taken to the emergency room and hospitalized for half a month.
“There was a time when I went to the toilet to vomit and then fainted in it, my husband had to be taken to the emergency room, lying on it for nearly half a month. That time was also the time when the COVID-19 epidemic broke out, so my husband was not allowed to stay in the hospital with me. One day, he was only allowed to visit for 1 hour and then come back, I was alone in the hospital, I was really sad, crying all the time. Thuong confided.
Mr. Armin went up to visit her and saw that her eyes were always swollen. He understood the difficulties she was going through, so he decided to silently intervene in the vasectomy to stop giving birth.
“I don’t know if he made that decision, so when the couple talked, I told him that I was ready to have a cesarean section, so I signed up for ovarian ligation as well. Even though you said you interfered, I also wanted to make sure because I was afraid of one person is not enough. Before giving birth, the doctor advised me and my wife a lot because we were young so we shouldn’t do it, but we feel that 3 children is enough and think about our eldest daughter, if we have another baby, we are worried we won’t have time for the baby to grow up. “, Ms. Thuong confided.
2 times to give birth in Germany, Mr. Armin was allowed to go to the delivery room with Ms. Thuong, he sat on top and held her hand, so she was also somewhat reassured. After giving birth to the third child, she did not give birth anymore, so it was very painful, even more painful than the previous 2 births. Her third baby was born weighing 3.1kg.
He took care of the children so that she could rest.
For Ms. Thuong, the decision to remarry with Mr. Armin was the best decision of her life and it has been proven through her 2 births in a faraway place. When he saw her struggling to give birth, Armin cried when he heard the baby’s birth. He held her hand in the room and leaned into her ear to say thank you.
As soon as she came out of the delivery room, he breastfed, nursed the baby, changed diapers, and cooked for his wife, so she didn’t have to do anything. Although her husband doesn’t talk much, he makes her very happy. Up to now, she is happy with her small home.
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