This mother’s way of punishing children is criticized by netizens
In process raise childrenParents will experience countless troubles and feelings of helplessness with their children. It is true that children are independent individuals, with their own thoughts, but because they are young, they cannot distinguish right from wrong, like to do as they please, causing a lot of headaches for parents.
There was a boy living in Inner Mongolia, China who tested his mother’s endurance, making her very angry and decided to punish her child with extremes.
This boy is normally very self-conscious about eating, so the mother always believes that he will eat all the food in the bowl. One day, the boy didn’t want to eat but was afraid of being yelled at by his mother, so he thought of a way, that is, waiting for his mother to do housework and secretly pour the rice bowl behind the sofa.
However, while secretly pouring rice, the boy was caught by his mother. At this time, despite being very scared, the boy still tried to be strong and told his mother not to hit him.
The mother said that the boy had made the same mistake before, but now it happened again, so she decided to teach him a lesson. The mother called her son to the back of the sofa, asking him to clean up and eat this bowl of rice again.
Hearing his mother say that, the boy was both scared and worried: “Mom, will I be poisoned if I eat it?“.
Seeing that her child was worried that she was sick, the mother said: “I’m not dead, don’t worry, eat quickly“. The boy heard his mother say that and obediently picked up the rice and put it in his mouth.
The mother said that her son was very stubborn, she had gently reminded her many times before, but this time severely punished the crime of wasting food. She hopes this method will make her son remember forever.
Before this method of the mother, netizens left many conflicting opinions such as:
– Bad children must be punished, but this type of punishment cannot be. Forcing him to eat rice spilled on the ground is very unsanitary, what if he has a stomachache.
– It is true that the boy’s actions made his mother very angry, but I do not support this punishment of the mother. Too extreme!
– There are many ways to make children understand that they should not waste food instead of making them eat rice spilled on the ground like that.
Surely many parents have fallen into the same troubles as above. In the process of caring for and educating their children, parents sometimes feel helpless not knowing what to do. Although there are mistakes children know they are wrong but still recur. If communication doesn’t work, perhaps physical punishment will make the child remember it longer. However, parents should consider how to punish children appropriately.
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