5 no, a smart woman’s way of love

How to love someone properly and keep happy marriage. Here are 5 things EduLove thinks smart women never do:

1. Don’t rely on

Whether in love or marriage, do not rely on your feelings or anything on the other person. Until they left, I had no more support and collapsed. If you want to be strong on your own two feet, you need to cultivate inner strength, be independent emotionally and financially, and take control of your life.

2. Do not ask for requests

Expecting the other person to care, to reciprocate the love and sacrifices that we give is not the way of love of intelligent people. The more he wished, the more burden he put on the other party, making him feel suffocated and wanted to run away from home. This is also the reason why many husbands cheat, because the third person knows how to be sweet and caring.

Just keep giving love without waiting for anyone to reciprocate. Because waiting for people not to respond, the only person who is tired is you.

3. Don’t downgrade, look down on the opponent

One of the worst things that women need to get rid of right away is comparing their partner with other people. Compare: “you have a lower salary than others”, “other people’s husbands do this and that”… or compare yourself to make better money and then give yourself the right to look down on and bring down the opponent. Never praise, acknowledge or encourage your husband. Men have the instinct to shoulder and pillar, even if they are really not equal to others, never show disrespect or condescension.

4. Do not upset the husband’s family

Being a bride is not easy when you have to go to a new environment with people who do not know their personalities well. There will be inadequacies and many unsatisfactory things: mother-in-law – daughter-in-law, and husband’s relationships. But never speak ill of your husband’s family. No one likes a person who is always criticizing and upset with the people they love.

5. Do not bring family stories to the world

Women often have a habit of “eight” stories. From small daily stories to work, husband and children tell their friends, neighbors… all the people around “the story of the house is unknown in the alley”. Husband and wife quarrel, adultery or whatever, let’s close the door and tell each other to settle in peace and quiet. The more you cheat on your husband, the more you “make up for it” only to make him lose face and love the third person even more because his wife is too “ugly”.

For a happy marriage, give love in the right way; Don’t rely on or expect, don’t compare, demean, or look down on the other party. Please consider your husband’s house as your birth family and treat you!