If you meet a man with these 3 characteristics, stay away
Many times women fall in love blindly and lose their judgment. They can even overlook a few flaws in a man’s character that make themselves sink and pay a painful price.
Should, encountering such people, women should promptly wake up and leave decisively. Whether in love or marriage, if a man has these 3 characteristics, he must definitely stay away.
1. Ostrich Personality: Evading life’s responsibilities
In psychology, there is a term called “ostrich personality”.
When in danger, the first thing the ostrich does is bury its head in the ground, turning a blind eye to the danger and hoping to escape. There are many people like that in real life. When problems arise in life, they do not actively solve them, but choose to avoid them. However, the problem will not go away on its own, blindly avoiding it will only deepen the conflict and eventually lead to irreversible results.
Men who do not have a sense of responsibility often choose to hide when life falls into problems or conflicting emotions. Many people choose infidelity as a way to paralyze themselves to find a way out. Chinese writer Tam Mao once wrote: “Life is full of chicken feathers. The only option is to pick up chicken feathers, tie them in bundles and dust them off.”
Love is always romantic and beautiful but marriages are trivial things. Right from the moment you enter a marriage, the responsibilities, obligations and family burdens need to be shouldered by both parties. If men can’t do those things, it’s best not to stick around for a long time.
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2. Narcissistic personality: Self-centered
A man who is too selfish, always self-centered, being with him will definitely not avoid fatigue. They always put their own needs and interests first, never attaching importance to the feelings of others. They tend to show a sense of superiority and want you to be around them all the time, doing what they want.
When going out to eat, have to choose a restaurant he likes and suits his taste, regardless of your preferences.
When he comes home from work, he throws dirty clothes for you to wash, regardless of your fatigue.
When shopping, always choose what he likes, when watching movies, only choose the movie he wants to see.
With a man like that, if you are not brave enough, you cannot change him. You can only bring trouble. If things go on like this, you will only feel more unloved, cared for, and lost in yourself. Therefore, if men have that personality, think carefully about whether to be together or not.
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3. Borderline Personality: Emotionally Unstable
There is a type of person who is very unstable emotionally, can be gentle now, but after a few seconds can be angry, mad. In psychology, this type of personality is called the “Borderline Personality”.
With no buffering time for their emotions, they are always at two extremes of emotions, calm or violent.
You never know when he will explode and what he will do. You don’t even know how callous he is when angry.
According to psychological research, 9 out of 10 men prone to domestic violence are emotionally unstable.
Being with such a man was like carrying a pack of explosives. It can explode at any time and your careless actions can lead to consequences.
So no matter what, you have to love yourself first. If the relationship brings only fatigue and pain, it’s better to let it go as soon as possible.
Whether a relationship is worth maintaining or not depends only on the benefits it brings. It depends on whether it’s harmful to you or not. Sometimes, women need to know how to leave the wrong to find the right, not to harm their own life.
According to Vietnamese Women
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